REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER FORGET YOUR BFF FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR LOVER | CRMSNCHRYSNTHS

You are finally out of the "single" zone. You are happily in love with your one and only. Then suddenly, your lover don't like your friends. 

Falling in love with someone and being loved by that person is the best feeling you can ever feel on Earth. You can never get to choose who to fall for. Even if you had a set of standards in your mind, sometimes, it won't matter anymore. It just happens.

But it is sad when you have to choose between your best friend and your lover. And if you have to, don't forget that your best friend is there even before you met your partner. When you are sad, got sleepless nights, or just want to have fun - that person was there right in front of you. She supported you. Your corny jokes, your loud laughs, your unending stories to tell. She was there. Even before your lover. 

And if you have to choose between your best friend and your lover, I beg you to not forget that you run to them when things get hard - when things get rough with your loved one. When there are things that you and your loved one fight about, you share your feelings of annoyance with your best friend. You talk to them your secrets.  Something that you can't even share with your lover because it is all about them. Remember their facial expression when you keep on telling the same old stories and they are just there to listen - even if they are so full of it. And after they listen, always remember that they give you their real thoughts or their point of views of what they have just heard. 

Yes, sometimes you don't need an advice. You just need someone to listen to you. But if they see that something is already not beneficial, they will give you their real thoughts. Because that's what best friends do. 

Because remember that they can see what you can't see: the bigger picture. You and your lover are inside that small picture that only the two of you can see. But your best friends got the third-person view. They can see what you two do. Yes, sometimes they assume or just exaggerate things. But your best friend will have no reason to break your heart because if it happens, you will go to them right? And it will be a hassle for them to fix you up. LOL

Lastly, do not forget that even before you met your partner you enjoy your best friend's company. Just imagine if it will soon come to an end just because your lover don't like them.

Do not misunderstood. Yes, your lover can be your best friend. But there are things that should be discussed about with your lover and with your best friend. You can't discuss it with the same person. Because that's the unspoken rule. That's just how things were designed. You can't talk about something with someone about themselves.

 

But in the first place, isn't wrong to even choose between them? There is something wrong. And it is for you to figure it out.